Writing Prompts - 30 Days of D/s

30 Days of D/s – Day 26 (Being D/s and Being Parents)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 26 (Being D/s and Being Parents) There’s still a pervasive myth out there that if you have kids you’re not allowed to be kinky or that it’s impossible. Of course you’re allowed to be kinky and as parents ourselves, we can promise it’s definitely possible. Just like…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 26 (Being D/s and Being Parents)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 25 (Figuring Out Your Tasks and Rituals)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 25 (Figuring Out Your Tasks and Rituals) Much like rules and other negotiated parts of your D/s relationship, you may want to incorporate tasks and rituals. Rules dictate behavior: behave this way, don’t do that, always do this. Tasks and rituals are often things you do for…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 25 (Figuring Out Your Tasks and Rituals)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 24 (Is 24/7 D/s Right For You?)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 24 (Is 24/7 D/s Right For You?) Not every D/s relationship is meant to be a 24/7 relationship. Some people don’t want that level of responsibility (Dom or sub). For others, it just won’t fit in with their life. If you think you want it now or…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 24 (Is 24/7 D/s Right For You?)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 22 (Drop is Real)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 22 (Drop is Real) What goes up must come down. Subspace is the most common of the highs in D/s, but we know from experience that Dom or top space is real too. Which means sub and dom drop are real possibilities after you have intense kinky…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 22 (Drop is Real)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 21 (Not Everyone Will Go To Space)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 21 (Not Everyone Will Go To Space) Subspace or top/dom space isn’t a guarantee every time you get kinky or in every D/s relationship. The feeling comes from the endorphins, dopamine, and other feel good chemicals our brain produces in a really intense scene. Submissives report feeling…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 21 (Not Everyone Will Go To Space)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 20 (Have You Heard of Subfrenzy?)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 20 (Have You Heard of Subfrenzy?) You might have never heard of subfrenzy and still experienced it whether as the submissive or a Dominant. It’s a moment that happens for new submissives or submissives in new relationships where they get a little intense about their submission, sometimes…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 20 (Have You Heard of Subfrenzy?)

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30 Days of D/s – Day 19 (Sexual Availability)

Loving BDSM’s 30 Days of D/s – Day 19 (Sexual Availability) In some D/s relationships (including ours), there is an agreement that the submissive will always be sexually available to their Dominant. While this can be a kinky, sexy aspect of a relationship, it always requires a great deal of trust from the submissive and…… Continue reading 30 Days of D/s – Day 19 (Sexual Availability)